I was supposed to write this blog a few days ago, but time got the best of me – and I was out enjoying my family – so here it is.
Even though we were an active family growing up: sports, fishing trips, playing baseball and basketball in our yard, ballet, etc – we didn’t eat healthy. My brother was the more active one and had a much higher metabolism than me, but I didn’t. And my body definitely showed all the southern foods that we ate a lot of.
I remember being chubby by the time I was in 3rd grade. Man, I hate that picture in the yearbook. But, I stayed overweight. I remember buying a size 12 dress pants to wear to school to fit the school dress code at my Christian school that I attended. I played volleyball and had that baby fat white (no tan) look in all the team photos. I even cheered, and I still have my cheerleading uniform to try it on every now and then.
But, even though I was active, the food I ate didn’t warrant a healthy lifestyle. Going to the corner convenient store almost every summer night to get a pm snack to eat while watching the Mets play baseball. Once I could drive I would drive over to McDs and get a Big Mac meal for dinner after the school activities. When we would go to Chilis after basketball games I chose the most fattening thing on the menu – the chicken crispers with fries and corn – at 10pm! No wonder I came close to 200lbs by the time I graduated high school.
I’ve struggled with weight and addiction to food and a gluttony and laziness in regards to food. My heart and compassion and eagerness to love and guide goes out to every overweight person – but especially those in elementary and high school.
That’s why I wanted to read Who’s the New Kid by Heidi Bond. It is a story of her daughter’s struggle with weight in elementary school and how she lost weight, changed eating habits, and became active. What I did like about the book was the recipes and activities and the eager outlook that things can change. You don’t always have to be heavy.
I think I would approach fitness and health with a family member differently – but everyone, no matter the situation, should look at each situation with compassion and knowledge, and seek to counsel in love and truth. No situation is the same.
My boys are going to be really tall. They are going to be boys. I don’t want them to be overweight. I want them to be active and healthy. I feed my boys yummy desserts, but also greens and fruit and grilled meats. They run and play every day. Balance is good! I want to cook them healthy foods – but not swear off doughtnuts and macaroni and cheese.
(I received this book from Litfuse in exchange for a review. All opinions are my own.)