Archive for the 'marriage' Category

Marriage Impact

What is the biggest influence on your marriage? For those Christians who are reading this – I’m going to go ahead and assume answer #1 will be individual time in the Word and prayer and the fighting of sin.  That’s a given. Ok – so what is the second biggest influence in your marriage. As [...]

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How Should We Respond to Gay Marriage?

Every blog post I wrote has come from personal experience or a conversation I’ve had, etc.  This one is no different. Yesterday on facebook, I was saddened to find out that a college acquaintance of mine, one who was in youth ministry with me and a professing Christian – now ordained in a denomination, was getting [...]

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Sex Doesn’t Sell (or does it?)!

How would you answer that question?  Obviously, the conservative Kraft company (and hundreds of other companies that have products to sell: from coffee, to burgers, to car washes, deodorant, etc) think it does. A new ad about the “Zesty” undressing dude making a salad gets “naked” to viewers to tell them to buy salad dressing.  Really? [...]

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31Days: New Service (and wrap-up) – (31)

Want to write a quick note to the wives out there.  Do you know what you do that pleases your husband – or what would please your husband? Here is a simple thing: My husband likes the bed made.  Since he told me that that one act of service makes him smile for the day [...]

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31Days: New Thoughts on Compassion

My pastor is about to wind up a series on Jonah.  True, we’ve only caught one of the sermons, but yesterday was a bit on compassion.  My hubs chose to put in Compassion Hymn into the service and it fit perfectly. As I thought about who I needed to show compassion to, I thought to [...]

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31Days: New Appreciation (13)

I get to brag today.  I get to brag on my sweet husband.  I had to spend the night without him because he was/is at an Elder’s retreat. As our pastor’s wives shared about their wonderful husbands – it gave me much more of an appreciation for mine.  I love bragging on him  - because [...]

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31Days: 8 and 9: New Celebrations

Ok – glad there is grace.  I missed the day yesterday for writing: I was sick, driving, unloading, feeding baby, and on a date with my husband.  Why was I on a date: We celebrated ONE YEAR of marriage.  It was fabulous!  We went to a wonderful restaurant on the river in Little Rock (although [...]

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A Wife’s Idol: Her Husband’s Happiness

  A hot cup of morning coffee?  20 minutes alone when he comes home from work in the evenings?  His favorite dessert for his birthday?  A night out with the boys?  A Saturday alone to watch all the college football games and finish it up with all the recaps on SportsCenter?  Do you know what [...]

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Media and Marriage

Books.  Chick Flix.  Television.  Advertisements.  Blogs.  Magazines. We are bombarded with media no matter if we have a cable subscription or not.  Checking out buying groceries we are enticed to look at half-dressed women screaming to us that “your husband would rather look at me than look at you or sleep with you.”  Or there [...]

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Book Review: Help! I’m a Minister’s Wife (Tina Wright)

Using her years of ministry experience and over 100 surveys by minister’s wives with years in the ministry as well, Tina Wright writes a helpful and encouraging book for all ministry wives.  Its funny, I got this book years after I met Tina (about 5 years ago now) and just read it – only 7 [...]

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